Authentically Nita

Can being too nice be a relationship liability? When we think of someone as "nice," we often regard it as a positive quality to have. Being nice is frequently associated with traits such as kindness, empathy, and respect towards others. However, there are circumstances in which being too nice can signify a more significant problem. People who are too nice may struggle with setting boundaries, expressing their opinions, and making their voices heard. In this blog post, we will explore the concept of being "too nice" and how it can be a liability in a relationship. Photo by Kampus Production When Niceness is Not Genuine Niceness One of the main reasons why being "too nice" can be a liability is that it is not always genuine. Some people may be excessively nice as a way of avoiding conflict or pleasing others. Niceness, in this case, is a by-product of low self-esteem, a lack of assertiveness, or a fear of rejection. When you are constantly trying to please o...

Change is something that we all go through at various points in our lives. Whether it's a new job, a move to a new place, or a decision to improve your life, change can be both exciting and overwhelming. However, understanding the seven stages of change can help you navigate the process with ease and grace. In this blog post, we'll explore each stage and offer tips for how you can make the most of each one. So, if you're ready to embrace change and take your life to the next level, read on! Photo by Dinielle De Veyra Stage 1: Recognize the need for change and embrace it. The first stage of change is recognizing that you need to make a change and fully embracing it. Whether it's a need to improve your health, relationships, or career, recognizing that change is necessary is the key to moving forward. Embrace the change and take it as an opportunity to better yourself. Remember that wanting to improve yourself doesn't mean you're inferior - it's the first step...

Society often tells us that being single is a negative thing - that happiness and fulfillment come only when we're in a loving relationship. But the truth is, being single can actually be a wonderful thing - a time of self-discovery, personal growth, and happiness. In this blog post, we explore the joys of being single and how to make the most of this special time in your life. Photo by Andrea Piacquadio Reconnecting with Yourself Being single is the perfect time to reconnect with yourself. Instead of focusing on what you don't have (a romantic partner), try focusing on the things you do have. Spend time doing things you love; pursue your passions; learn a new skill or hobby. By focusing inwardly, you will not only deepen your self-awareness, but you will also develop independence and self-sufficiency. You may be surprised to find that the things you once thought you needed a partner to provide - like validation or emotional support - can actually come from within. Learning to ...